Often times, people view others discovering their sins as bad thing. It’s uncomfortable, it points out our flaws. More so, it hurts our pride, and changes the way people view you. However, when you’re on the other side of things and reflecting on past actions, so much gratitude can be felt. Gratitude that there are people who love you enough to point out the sins you are blind to or flat out ignore because it’s too messy to deal with.
It’s so easy to get so stuck in sin, that we think that there’s no possible way out. And what that really translates to is, there’s no easy, mess-free way out of things. Because of this, we let those “small” habits snow ball into major sin issues, that if left to us alone, would absolutely ruin us. But how lucky are we, that we serve a Gracious God, who puts people in our lives who care about us enough to call us out. By God’s grace, we have parents who discipline us, and a family who stands by your side and keeps you accountable. We have church communities, where even people who don’t know what is going on in your life can be the most encouraging. We have friends who know our struggles and yet love us despite them, and pray with and for us. (And if you don’t have these sorts of friends, I would highly recommend taking the initiative to start conversations about faith and begin actively praying for one another)
In my personal experience, being caught in sin (big or small) felt like my world was falling apart. I was frustrated with my parents because “they just didn’t understand”. Every cliché excuse for sin, I used. But in reality, people discovering my sin was the most freeing moment of my life. The weight of the guilt and shame that I was carrying around was suddenly lifted off my shoulders. While some actions come with very serious consequences, that if I am being completely honest were very much needed, I learned about myself and through the people who loved me, I saw the Grace of God first hand. While my immediate response wasn’t “wow, look at how gracious our God is” or “goodness my parents and this community love me so much”, looking back it was so critical to who I am now, and what shaped my faith and life now.
So even when you’re world seems like it’s falling apart, everyone is pointing out your flaws, and your reputation is inevitably damaged by your mistakes- know that it is by God’s Grace that he is bringing you back to himself and saving your soul. Thinking that you won’t get back to the same place you were in your community, give thanks. You shouldn’t want to go back to the circumstances that created those habits of sin. Instead pray that God helps you avoid those situations and create better ones. Pray that God will open up your heart and mind to what honors him, not what serves ourselves best. Be encouraged by the fact that we serve a gracious and loving God, who is eager to hear our repentance and show us his love in so many different ways. He is kind, he is gracious, and he loves each and every one of us.